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I just do not feel right forcing food down when my goal is to lose fat.
i'm not sure if you watch the "Biggest Loser", but there was a prime example of this last season. Father and son, Ron and Mike, 2 fairly large guys, and the son was only 18. which means he should have been losing weight at break-neck speed. but they werent. why? because they werent getting enough calories to support the workout. they were so focused on this weight loss thing they kinda starved themselves. once bob or jillian (i dont remember who their trainer was at the time) got a handle on that, the pounds started FLYING off, especially for mike, being a young guy.
so yes, you must restrict calories, but to a point. you dont want your body thinking that you're going to starve, because it will start metabolizing your MUSCLES first for energy, and not the fat. it takes less for your body to maintain fat on your body. think of it like a car, if you're on a budget, and you have 2 cars, an expensive luxury import(muscle), and reliable regular car(fat). since the regular maintenance on the luxury will cost more (requires more calories just being there), you're gonna get rid of that first, if you're ever in a financial crunch (starvation).