I just recieved my P90X DVD's and my husband and myself are going to start when we come back from vacation. I usually work out by myself and enjoy doing that it will be an adjustment having someone who doesnt workout workout with me. Any suggestions? I dont want to snap.

give it a try if he's a distraction then you will have to figure something out e.g. send him to another room with his own copies.
you could stagger your schedule so one start before the other, so when you're on day 3 he's on day 2.
I don't have a space big enough for 2 to do this program at my house.
On the other hand having a partner keeps you honest and motivated, I do mine at the gym and having others near me give me a boost of adrenaline, an opportunity to show off my pull up skills, imagine if I had a partner I'd be more even more disciplined .
Good Luck